"You cannot pour from an empty cup.
It is time to let the water refill."
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Burnout is not "weakness." It is a physiological state of depletion. Before we can heal, we must stop gaslighting ourselves about the severity of the situation.
It's not just you. According to the APA (2023), 57% of workers report negative health impacts from work-related stress.
Stress is "too much" (too many pressures). Burnout is "not enough" (not enough emotion, motivation, or hope).
| Signs of Stress | Signs of Burnout |
|---|---|
| Over-reactive emotions | Blunted / Numb emotions |
| Urgency & Hyperactivity | Helplessness & Apathy |
| Loss of energy | Loss of ideals & hope |
The "Battery" Check: If 100% is fully charged and 0% is collapsed, where are you today?
In a world obsessed with productivity, resting feels like a crime. To heal from burnout, you must override the guilt. You need a contract with yourself that prioritizes safety over output.
The Guilt Release: What is one thing you feel guilty about not doing, that you can realistically drop for 1 week?
You aren't "broken." You are in Dorsal Shutdown. This is your body's emergency brake.
When we feel the "Shutdown" (bottom), we often try to force ourselves back to the top with caffeine or anxiety. This fails. To get out of the basement, you must move slowly. You need safety, not speed.
When a lobster grows, it must shed its shell. During this time, it is soft and vulnerable. It does not hunt. It hides under a rock. You are currently "Soft-Shelled." You need a rock.
Hiding is a biological necessity for growth.
To recover, you must stop the leaks draining your battery. Identify 3 specific things you will say NO to this week.
1. The Professional "No" (Work/Tasks)
2. The Social "No" (Obligations/Events)
3. The Internal "No" (Self-Talk)
Recovery doesn't happen in big leaps. It happens in "Micro-Doses." Select 3 tiny actions that require almost zero energy but provide sensory comfort.
| Nature: Step outside for 2 minutes and look at the sky. |
| Water: Drink a glass of water slowly (feel the temperature). |
| Tech-Free: Leave phone in the other room for 20 mins. |
| Touch: Wrap in a weighted blanket or heavy hoodie. |
| Sound: Listen to brown noise or rain sounds. |
I commit to doing one of these things today. Just one.
Next Step
If you feel stuck in the "Shutdown" phase for a prolonged period, consider using the Adaptiv App. Select the "Restore" module for guided audio.
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